The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Gayle, I respect your obvious knowledge of alanon and how it work, however I would appreciate it if you could show more respect for other members here, your responses can be very hurtful.
I had contemplated a post similar to this one myself. I am NOT In the habit of being spiteful to others. But I would also have to say on this matter.
Yes we are ALL hurting and In so much pain. We come In here looking for understanding, and If one reply Is less than understanding. It can have serious affects on these people. They may feel, hurt, that no-one understands them, thinks they are stupid. We suffer negative responses from the A's In our lives. We do NOT need them In a place where we should feel, safe, loved and understood.
This Is an honest programme, and I feel we have to be honest with eachother in order to work this programme.
And we should be able to say how we feel, Without malice or bitterness.
