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I had the best time this afternoon and evening because I was able to do something I haven't done in a a few years--haven't been invited--long story, gave my parents hell growing up and then some, but....
Right before my dad came to get me I was informed that I was invited for Christmas Dinner.
One thing I have accomplished in my life is to let my mom be who she is and stop trying to get the love and approval from her in the way I want it. I will be searching forever. She has issues, but that woman loves me, my dad too. I was with my 15 year old daughter (wants to have a sex change?)
Lots of issues, but today everything was put on hold and I had the best experience at my parents house I think I may ever have. I learned to let go.
Anyone out there can you help me figure out letting go like that incorporated with dealing wih my A?
I have attached some very beautiful and interesting pictures for your enjoyment and enlightenment.
God Bless
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This is HippieTrippieChick Signing Off
Be blessed and have a wonderful day.
Remember God loves you.
PEACE
When I started to try and let go, the first time was as wonderful as you are discribing. When the next time came around that I had to give it a shot. I thought about how difficult it was that first time, yet what a relief it was after it was all over. That gave me that little push to give it the effort needed. I did it before, I can do it again...Good luck!