Hello everyone,

well, last night when he came home my A had it heavy on his mind to do some serious drinking. I could see and feel it. I was straight up and said go somewhere. Have a buddy pick you up. Just let me have some time by myslef. some wonderful rest. I stayed up all night on the puter, but it was nice. Daughter is bipolar like me so we have many nights up together when we can't sleep. MSN Chat. Love it.

He left his keys here. I wonder if that was intentional. I dread the scene when he does return, because he will. I want to keep it like this.

So, I have devised a plan of action. When he does show up. I am gonna lay it down to him. I am having serious problems with the way he treats me and acts while drinking, and it is causing me physical and mental harm ( I already suffer serious physical and menatal issues ). I want to tell him that he needs to get help for his drinking, and decide who he wants more--the booze or me.

Is this a good thing to do.

Please help.

I want to go to bed, and when I do, I will not answer the door. Let him bang. I would probably be so mad I would just silently call the cops. I do not want to lose my HuD, but calling the cops on him would ban him on a list from being allowed on any Hud property.

HELP ME