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I know I haven't been on much lately, just too much has happened. I just need everyone right now, probably more than I ever have. Blake (20 month old) died this morning of heart failure. He has been having the seizures, and has been staying in the hospital. He had a stroke a few days ago, and was on a respirator. However, this morning, his small body couldn't take the stress anymore. I pray that he's in a better place, but in the meantime, his family misses him. We're left without that sweet little boy. Please send prayers this way, thanks.
Remembering Blake, our beautiful, smiling, perfect baby boy. We love you and miss you. 3-27-05~12-20-06
(((((((((((((((((Mira and Blake)))))))))))))))))))),
I am sooooooooooooooo sooooooooooo sorry about Blake! I will always remember how much you loved and took such wonderful care of him ((((((((Mira)))))))))))).
We are here for you and love you. Maria
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Oh honey I am beyond sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the heartbreak you are going through. Sending you and your family extra prayers and love. May your sweet Blake rest in peace.
Karilynn
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
A mother's love is beautiful in life, death and beyond. I can't imagine the sorrow; I hope you serve Baby Blake's memory well with the love you hold in your heart.
My prayers and deepest sympathies
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time to stop going to the hardware store to buy bread.
I am praying that God will give you support and peace as you grieve the loss of your baby. Nothing could possibly hurt worse than such a loss. As I care for my 18 month old grandbaby today, I will think of Blake and give thanks for his life. My prayers are with you and your family on this day and at this time.
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you deal with this time of loss. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Blessings to Blake, you and your family.
Miranda, I am so sorry and heart broken about your loss. This is definitely one time in your life when you will benefit from your HP and take one minute at a time. Give yourself time to grieve and by all means take the time to take care of you.
Do you have a F2F group that you attend? If so call someone that can be there with you during these first few days.
I have never lost a child so I cannot say I know how you feel, only those that have walked in your shoes can benefit you most right now. Keep reaching out.
Yours in recovery
Mobirdie
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As a father myself, my heart aches for you and your family at this time. The tragedy of loosing one so young is always painful, but keep the memories close to your heart.
All my love, thoughts and prayers to you dear girl.
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I am so sorry for your loss. There can be nothing worse than losing a child. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Please continue to use your MIP family here to help you through this terrible time.
My prayers and thoughts are with you and all that surround you. I know God is cuddling with your little one right this very moment and His hand is reaching down to comfort you as only He can at this difficult time.
Oh Miranda... I'm so sorry for your loss... I'm crying for you right now... it's hard to understand why -- why? I can't come up with the right words of comfort... but I am trying to envision your sweet baby Blake resting comfortably and peacefully in God's strong, loving hands. Keep on believing that God has a plan for you and your sweetpea -- it may not be for us to understand... hold onto your faith, hold onto your beloved family and friends who can support you through this time... and know that your friends and family here are praying for you and your family -- that somehow God will help you will find rest and peace in your heart and soul.
What a sad time....I am very sorry for you and your family. There is nothing more precious than our children. I lost my brother Sept. 23rd in a motorcycle accident, he was 31. He was my best friend. And during those first weeks I came to truly realize and understand the last line in the poem Footprints in the Sand...."it was then that I carried you." Without the God of my understanding...I would not have survived the pain I felt. He will carry you through this horrible pain you are feeling. And you will very quickly start to see signs that your sweet baby is still with you in spirit. You now have the best guardian angel ever and he is with you always. Take care and know you are in our prayers.
I am so very sorry. What heartbreaking news. My heart grieves for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. Please know that we are all here for you. With love, Sherri
Mira, I'm so sorry to hear about your baby brother. Take time for yourself and let yourself grieve. Please know I'm thinking of you during this difficult time. Stay strong! Love, Artygirl
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deb....he's my little brother biologically, but legally and emotionally he's always been mine....its hard to explain, but anyways, thank u so much to everyone that posted, i really appreciate all of this support
