hi Stacie, how are you feeling now?

Have you tried to call an alanon number in your phonebook? You can even call an AA number and they will help you find a number.

The reason I say this is, if you call they may be able to send you some literature.

Yes it sounds like you are in a hard place. To depend on this guy financially yet he legally is not suppose to be there.

In alanon we learn to put our lives,worries, thoughts hopes in hp's hands. Higher Power. For me, that is the creator. I tell ya stacie, it works for me.

So I guess what I am saying is, I do what I feel is right,even if it is scarey and things always turn out.

If you really want him out of there,and he won't go, is there anyone you can call to come over and get him out? I mean peaceably? Many A's don't like to show there true colors in front of others.

Even if you get him out for a day, and lock the doors, he will just come back.sounds like you need others support so he will be more leery of coming back.

You don't want to lose your HUD, and you will if he is caught there.

Please keep coming back. vent all you need to.

We learn in alanon not to respond to their mindless talk, their abuse. It is their disease talking, it means nothing.

Hope you keep coming back. love,debilyn