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here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I have found that I am unable to continue my service work on the Family Teens Room.
They meet on Thursdays and Sundays at 8 PM EST. Not only has my schedule changed and the next month is going to be hairy, it's very important for me and others to rotate service work.
I'd like to share how this opportunity has enriched my life in the hopes that someone will be willing to do some service. The one thing I found most important is the commitment to be there for these teens on meeting nights. There are exceptions of course but these kids have no "stability" in their lives and often they can hold on for a day or two even but being dependable and consistent is important as you consider this.
I got so much more out of being a part of them than I felt I gave them. Children are resilient in the face of adversity. It is both enriching and can be heart breaking all at the same time. I simply shared on their level remembering all the times I, really and truly, was helpless over my father's alcoholism. My message was always one of encouragement, support, unconditional love and hope. I tried not to share too much of the gorey details as they are already living their own but I used some basic examples to show the program in action. I met a group of the most wonderful, beautiful children in this world trying to make it in the world.
So I hope someone will consider this service. I don't believe a double winner can do this. Please let me or Imfree (Rose) know if you can.
Love in recovery, Maria123
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If I am not for me, who will be? If I am only for myself, then who am I? If not now, when?