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purplebutterfly


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My A makes me feel guilty so much. Guilts me into not calling my own mom cause mom hurt me growing up. the harrassess me after i call. liike saying i said things i shouldnt have. which isnt true


then turns around and checks to see when i called hher on the phone bill that i pay. .


 


 Im tired of feeling so guilty and needing approval of an A.


MyA is dry but still a pain at times......


I want to talk to who i want to when i want to need help


 



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peewee


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absolutely, butterfly, do what you want about it.


I know what you mean, ppl telling you when to call mom and what to say and not say.    I've had my fill of that.


Don't buy into it.   You are you, so just be you.


You can smile and say, I will do what I need to do when I need to do it.  Period.  So, please don't try to direct this.


(Butterfly, I am talking to myself and you at the same time :)


 


Mspeewee



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