The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I am looking for a new sponsor. I want to believe the steps will help me out of the stuff I am in. I have good days and tremendously bad days. I also have a resolve that I will not allow the A's addiction to destroy me. I know it has come close.
I hope someone will volunteer. I could even go with a temporary one. I email diligently and am motivated and able.
Try looking for someone at local face to face meetings. If there is someone there who says something that rings true of hit's the right nerve, talk to them--ideally, the same gender as you. If there are no f2f in your area, go to open AA meetings and do the same thing. Again, working with a "real live person" can heal so many more wounds.
Someone that accepts u for what u are ,Believes in u, Keeps in touch with u, Doesn’t give up on u, Doesn’t judge u, Someone that helps u look at ur self, loves u no matter what, Doesn’t try to run your life
Make a difference in your life and help u see your mistakes
Offers support by Listening and supporting u
Says nice things to u about ur self
Honest with u, Understand u, Values you
Walk with u through all ur good and bad times
the best thing you can do is stick around a bit, listen in meetings and find someone you can relate too someone who's program you can respect
be selective its important someone who has the kinda program you want
works the steps
You are problary going to have to ask someone ur self. Good luck on ur search.
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Hey everyone watch me grow. I go thru good & bad times. each day i am getting stronger.
