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Well went to the Da to presss charges, told me had to file with the police first, went to three different police stations they all kept telling me to go back to the other one...it was awful.....finally contacted an attorney.....she is going to take care of this for me....it is just a little too much to deal with on my own...
Went to the bank, omg I thought I would just die.....He wrote 30 cks on my accoout which he is not authorized for....the thing is he signed my name to most of them...the bastard....
I beleive the bank knows they sqrewed up...he got some kind of pay day loans out of my account and they were deducting the money from me.....I said, he is not authorized on this account all the lady could say well yes, they are in his name......giving that to an attorney.....
So, I feel like I have just been beat up, mainly the rage at my husband for doing this to meit is eating me up....how the hell could you do this to a stranger let alone someone you just spent the last 20 yrs with.....that just blows me away.....I am trying my very best to Let Go and Let God.....it's just a little hard this very moment.
I am thinking, this has to be the end of the pain from him and his beloved addiction... I really know I can not take anymore......I am holding on to a thin string right now...by the grace of God......
Thanks for listening, needed to get this out....I so appreciate being able to come here and put my heart on paper......
(((Andrea))))) You are doing great! You are one strong lady It'll be easier now that you have an attorney handling it, she knows who to talk to and how to get through all the redtape and this will save you sooo much frustration and stress. I am proud of you my friend.
You don't have to buy from anyone. You don't have to work at any particular job. You don't have to participate in any given relationship. You can choose.
You steer the course you choose in the direction of where you want to be today, tomorrow, or in a distant time to come. You hold the tiller.
You can decide to alter the course of your life at any time. No one can ever take that away from you. You can decide what you want and go after it. It's always your next move.
(this too shall pass ((andrea)) Christy
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I'm sorry you have to go through this. If its any relief to YOUR pain, know he is not doing it to maliciously hurt you - its his addiction which is running his life but nevertheless I can only imagine how you must hurt. You are in my prayers tonight. Hang in there.
Well I guess you have a lot of stuff with the bank and all. I've been on the police report train. Generally there is one main police station (the largest one) that they do reports. Generally that is during the day so you have to go when you are supposed to be at work. Another defecit huh?
I am sure you are angry.
I am sure you are also going to use that anger to get you through this.
You know it's hard enough when you have to do these things against someone you loved. But when the police can't make up their minds where you should go, that just fries me! Frankly it sounds like the bank doesn't have any clue either. Good for you for giving it to an attorney. That's what they get paid. They always say, love has nothing to do with addiction. That's for sure. No sane person would do that to another human being. Besides how do they think of these things? Man oh man, if they applied that same creativeness to something other than addiction, the world would be full of productive people. Think about it. Okay, I'll get off my soapbox!
Hang in there dear friend, you're doing the best you can, and that's pretty darn good considering. I'm proud of you.
Love and blessings to you and the kids.
Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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Frankly it sounds like the bank doesn't have any clue either. Good for you for giving it to an attorney. That's what they get paid. They always say, love has nothing to do with addiction. That's for sure. No sane person would do that to another human being. Besides how do they think of these things? Man oh man, if they applied that same creativeness to something other than addiction, the world would be full of productive people. Think about it. Okay, I'll get off my soapbox! 