The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Just to let everyone of you know that i read all the posts looking for inspiration, and i find it in each and evey reply to every message here.
The most valuable time in my day is spent reading here. I learn so much from all your experiences and i am very greatful for the existance of this site.
With my work hours it is hard to go to f2f, but this is sooooo helpful.
I didn't go to meetings for a long time. I had lots of other things to do. I was urged here to go, and at one stage I was so beaten up, worn out by it all that I decided to follow this advice and go to a face to face meeting. What had I to lose...
Anyway, I mention this because it was one of the best things I have done for myself. I found great understanding, acceptance, warmth and love. Also, I found guidance, and this is really important to me.