The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Well, I am pretty sure there will be one... both of us pretty busy with stuff so it may be 2-3 weeks.
It was a good time, I met some of her friends which I think all of us acknowledged without saying so, was her way of getting a "second opinion" of me.. LOL.
It IS unfamiliar territory to have someone of the opposite sex just look me in the eye and be able to believe she's being honest with me. Both of us are very reserved and cautious - perhaps for different reasons - but we acknowledge it and accept it in the other, and that makes for a comfort zone that is putting neither of us under undue pressure.
I had a dream last night that I lost my wedding ring. Which is pretty funny because I've been divorced for more than a decade, and it has been at least that long since I saw or wore my wedding ring. But I'm pretty good at reading my own dreams, and that one seems to be telling me something about letting go of the past. Oddly enough, I have absolutely no memory of what became of that wedding band. I don't remember making a conscious decision to get rid of it, or putting it away somewhere... nothing at all.
Also made it to my regular f2f meeting which was good, because I'm going to miss it the next couple weeks due to other activities.