I just wanted to thank everyone who was in the chat room last night and listened to me. You guys really helped me get through a rough night.

i also wanted to let you all know what happened after he came home. . .
i'm pretty sure he didn't go to the bar, but he wouldn't give me a straight answer so maybe he did. we did have a big fight of course. he tried to blame everything on me because i shouldn't get so upset. -I shouldn't get upset when he storms out of the house and says he's headed to the bar?????- he didn't seem to remember that he was the one who got upset because i asked him to leave me alone for a few minutes while i finished talking to you guys.
somehow i was finally able to make him realize why i was upset, and that i do have a right to some privacy once in a while and he can't get angry at me for asking for it. everything calmed down and worked out ok for last night.

so thanks again everyone. and i am checking into some of those links and plan to find a f2f to start attending.

talk to you all again soon.