" if certain things happened I would never recover."


Oh....Maresie!!!! I can relate to that feeling. I still have that thought in my head.

I call that "PROJECTION".That is a horrible thing for me to deal with. When A son first started exhibiting "drinking problems", I used to obsess over wondering how I would go on with my life if, in the future, he did not get his drinking under control...if he truly was an A....if he and his wife split up...I would be no more good.

Well, you know what...all of that did happen and although it has been a really rough year for me, I am getting through it ODAT.

Thanks to all of you and this wonderful program!!!!