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AH has truck in both our names somewhere in AZ. He is going to treatment. No payments have or will be made. Also he got a DUI in Alabama on the way I found out. What do I need to do to CMA? Not sure what my responsiblity is here but I know I'm not paying for a vehicle I don't have.
Sorry, the loan company will try and hold you responsible for the truck whether or not the you have it. Simply because your name is on the loan. Some loan co. will go to great lengths to recover their money or vehicle. One thing you can do is work with the loan company to locate the truck so they can repo it. It will damage your credit, but you will be out from under the loan.
I have to agree wiht the above post.I have paid formore then one thingmy ex bought, brcause both our names was onit. Even with the divorce papers saying he would pay for it. Legal loan papers are held over dicorce papers. Call them be honset about the whole thing, they might come closer to working with you that way,
Can you ask him where it is and to get it to you. I would speak to the people at the treatment center. I have dealt with this issue with the A. I am so so grateful I did not get more involved in his life. I would be totally up the creek in debt if we were married. Funny how the program works like that I used to so want to be connected to him now I just want to be disconnected without losing everything in the interim.
I would call the loan company, and just be honest. Tell them exactly what you told us. And tell them what is going on with you financially, too. They may be able to work something out.
