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After not hearing from my husband in a little more than week he calls me today at work to ask me (accuse me) if I had been over to the house. He works out of town during the week. Well I haven't and told him so. He said that someone thought they saw me in the neighborhood and he thought maybe I had rode by to pick up mail. He told me that he wasn't mad and that if I got any mail he would call me. "I'm not that much of an a**hole" he says. I wanted to say that there was nothing at that house that I wanted including him and that yes he was an a**hole but I held my tongue. It was hard let me tell you. Other than the occasional junk mail,I haven't gotten mail there in a while because I had all my mail forwarded to my sister's a while back.
Now I find myself wondering who in the hell has he got watching for my car. I think it's ridiculous because that is something I just don't do. I am not one to ride by and check-up on him.
Makes me wonder what that phone call was all about.
My interpretation of this Julie Lynn is that he was actually hoping you had come by and is missing you. The phone call about the mail was just an excuse to have some contact with you again. Luv Leo xxx
Seems to me that his distorted mind is at it again (just like mine can do at times). I find for me that it's best that I don't spend much time analyzing what he said, what he meant, was this a test, is he trying to get to me? blah blah blah blah - wasted energy for me.
Glad you are here, Maria123
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