The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
Last summer I was desperately trying to make ends meet - working my tail off doing 3-4 jobs to feel like I wasnt counting pennies to pay for things. I had a deadbeat boyfriend who I loved dearly and thought he had the drive and determination to work for his future as well. All he was working for was drugs.
This summer - I am close to debt free (besides a couple of student loans and a small credit card to pay off). My car will be paid off in one more month. And I just put down an offer for my first house ON MY OWN! Which in the state of NJ - is not something easily done.
This is all so scary - so terrifying - what if I cant do it. What if I fail - what if I really cant afford this whole thing by myself.
Who knew in November I would be here today - waiting to see if my offer was accepted - running a thriving business and working at a university. One year later - most of my prayers were answered. I couldnt be anymore blessed than I am.
you may need to put a marqee out in ur back garden also to accomodate the ALANON house warming... we shall all bring gifts.. which u an pawn if u do get stuck for bills lol....
im kidding.... u'll do great hun...like u always do!