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Hi to everyone...thanks so much for the PM's that I have received during this hard time. I don't think I would have gotten through all (so far) had it not been for the skills I have learned though counseling and Al-anon.....I left my job June 10th and am still at mom's house. Since I am the hometown girl I am sorting, packing, dividing, etc. It is a hard emotional job. Mom lived in this house since 1957!!!! But in ways I feel her here with me and wouldn't have it any other way. Us siblings are great, although there is a will and letter of intent, we find ourselves trading things, it's fun and funny......with mom gone now the three of us kids want to be closer than ever, we know our parents would have wanted it this way.
My A has been supportive, but it's strange, or maybe I am changing and growing. When he doesn't call or stop to see me (I have been to my home twice since June 10th) I don't miss him. My bonds with my girlfriends and family are growing in leaps and bounds. I have filed a small claim against a previous employer for not paying me time and half for overtime worked, (one thing I learned about my mother, she NEVER let anyone take advantage of her) I actually wrote a nice letter requesting the pay, he refused so now the judge will tell him to pay....it's the law and I'm not the first one he has done this to.
I just wanted everyone to know that I am doing the best I can considering the situation.....I will write more later....Hugs to you all, Mary
You sound good.I know how emotional that can be,I remember going thru my sister's apartment with my family.It's very difficult.I know I am facing that with my mom as well,she will be 91 next Tuesday.
Take care of yourself. love,hugs,and prayers drucilla
I remember going through my mother's things, when I was only 19. My father and sister didn't have the heart to do it. But I knew Mom would have wanted me to do it. It was a way of moving foward and yet keeping her close. It was hard, but I'm glad I did it. I discovered a part of her that I didn't know. For that I will always be grateful.
You have a serenity about you that comes through. I hope it lasts for you. Enjoy your time with the siblings and girlfriends. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Live strong,
Karilynn & Pipers Kitty
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It's your life. Take no prisoners. You will have it your way.
I hope it lasts for you. Enjoy your time with the siblings and girlfriends. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. 
