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THANK-YOU ALL FOR YOUR REPLYS AND PRAYERS. YOU GUYS ARE THE GREATEST!!! i'M STILL IN MY BEDROOM WHERE I'VE BEEN MOST OF THE DAY. WHILE I WAS OUT FEEDING MY PETS, HE DID SOMETHING TO THE TV SO HE COULD WATCH IT FROM THE LIVING ROOM. I NOTICED HE ALSO REFILLED THE FRIDGE WITH BEER, SO GUESS HE MUST STILL BE BLAMING ME? I'M GOING TO READ FOR AWHILE, THEN GO TO SLEEP. HAVE SOME GOOD BOOKS AND WILL MAYBE START WITH 'CO-DEPENDENT NO MORE. 'NIGHT MY FRIENDS, THANK-YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING THERE !!! LOVE, TLC
I can understand where you are at. There are times when I have to totally wall myself off from the A. I hate it but it is "safe". I also hate the fact that the A picks up nothing. He will do zero and ask him more than once and he never does anything at all.
My A now goes to drink elsewhere. I am glad none of that goes on in the house anymore. I don't think I will ever live with anyone who drinks again. I have had my fill of it.
there are days when I detach well and days when I don't. I know both is okay for me.
I hope you will continue to post and get the love and understanding you can get here.