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dori


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Hi,


  I could of missed the pain but than I would of missed the dance.I loved you and I am thankful I loved you.I am thankful for all you did in my life.Yes I mean all the drama the pain all of it.I landed in alanon where I  got sanity for the first time in my life.


  It got to me a place in my life I could get real and find out who I was.Thank you I learned how to let you go and move on but not one minture did I stop loveing you.The day I left I cried on each box I loaded in the truck.


We kept the drama up in phone calls letters and the pain was real but one day someone said to me do you want to hurt his recovery and I said no and let you go no phone calls no letters nothing.


  Some time the most loveing thing we can do is detach and let go .



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That was truly beautiful, dori.  You have expressed your feelings in such a way that all of us--at least I--can relate to.  I admire your courage.


Stay strong.



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Dolphin123


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((((Dori)))),


You are so right! I feel that the biggest sign of love for my "A" is detaching with love.


Yours in recovery,


Dolphin123



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Wow, !! That was really powerful !! So true, i pray that someday I will have the strength to let go !!

Thanks for sharing your intermost thoughts !!

Tammy

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Dori,

Letting Go and Letting God has been the best thing for me as well....I had to let go of my husband in order to get him back......Life living with an active a is hell for all concerned....

Wishing you the peace and serenity you deserve.....

Best Wishes,
Andrea

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s1234


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Wow!  I am new and I just read this!  It is so true, I am struggling with what to do in my situation with my husband as I kinow I make excues and am an enabler.  Maybe it is time for me to let him go so he can work on himself.


 


Keep being strong!


Sharon



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dori


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Hi,


 Sharon I wish you well what ever decission you make .it was not a easy decission but for me it was right.Thank you all who  reponded thank you very much for your comments


 dori



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Wow Dori, That was so beautiful! Thank-you! Love, TLC

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