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Good morning to all! You may have read an earlier thread of mine about my boyfriend's passing. Well...turns out I went home to visit him at just the right time! I'm pregnant and ecstatic. This is a miracle. Before he passed he had the chance to make me a mother, and his parents grandparents. I am sad that he cannot be here to share in this with us, because he would of been a wonderful father. But a part of him is living and growing inside of me! God works in mysterious ways.
Congratulations! I know it must be difficult for you, but I can hear the joy in your voice. You'll be able to tell the baby what a wonderful father he/she had. Now he'll always be with you.
Love and blessings to you.
Live strong,
Karilynn
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(((jacksmom)))) What a wonderful gift you received! My heart just broke when I read the post about your bf passing. Now, you will have a part of him with you.
By the time I had met my current husband, I had one child, and had my tubes tied. I would have loved to have had a child with him, and we had talked about it, he wanted me to see a Dr. about hooking me back up. I never did make an appointment to go, and we ended up separating for about 9 years. We're back together now, have been since 1997, but a little on the old side to think about having any kids. I just thought it would be really cool to have a child with someone I really cared about, since I had my daughter with my ex and he had a son with his ex. Now we have a granddaughter who I am totally crazy over, and she looks just like him.
Life is funny sometimes, the twists and turns, the mystery. But it all happens for a reason. Keep us posted about how you are doing. Am so happy for you, I have a feeling this is one baby who is gonna feel REALLY special!
Keep going with your recovery so this new little one can learn from you, and perhaps have an easier road than it has been for some of us!
WOW!!! God does work in mysterous ways your right! Who are we to even try to guess what he's got planned huh? What an amazing gift you've been given and i'm so happy for you and the grandparents! Congrats!!!!! Trina