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Tammy


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Yesterday i posted about my trip to OHIO and today I am really having a bad day !! I cant stop thinking about my husband on his own vacation..  Wondering if he has someone with him .. It is making me CRAZY.. I hoped that today would be better but instead my mind is racing with ideas of him with another woman in my camper riding our motorcyle.. I have prayed all day that these feelings would go away but unfortunately they are still there.. No phone call from him today which is making my mind race even faster.. :( 


Some vacation, ..


Tammy



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Dolphin123


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((((((((((Tammy)))))))))))),


It sounds like you are doing the best you can in a difficult situaiton.


Try to focus on you. Can you get to a meeting there? That might help.


I don't know about your "A", but I know mine dosen't call me to "punish" me. The best thing for me to do is to not let it get to me.


I know easier said than done. But keeping the focus on me, and fake it till I make it, helps.


Much Love,



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debilyn


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Let go and let God, um can't control it. Who am I kidding? Girl I have not had to go thru this before. One thing my a is not is a cheater. I beleive it would still tear me apart.


But if I were you, I would think, I cannot control it. Sometimes things are not happening anything like what our minds make up.


We really can change our thoughts, takes some working on it. I told you or someones before, for me I say stop and think about something else I have planned to stick in there.


I am glad you came here and let it out. I wish I had more to say to you. I just cannot imagine how hard this is. I am glad you got out on your own though.


Hoping tomorrow is better. love,debilyn



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