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((((Thanks)))) to everyone for your support the other day. I was relapsing pretty hard and your responses really helped.
She is still a mess, but your strength helped me keep a slippery hold on my sanity. I think what is making this harder is that tomorrow is our 15th aniversery. Being face to face with the worst part of the disease makes that less than a joyous occassion.
Take care of you!
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"Good judgement comes from experience... experience comes from bad judgement" - unknown
Sorry to hear you were having a rough time. Glad to know you found the support that you needed here. I am wishing you a grateful anniversary. You made it through a rough year!
hon for me, that stuff crosses my mind too. But I learned a long time ago, what I really wanted was to change how things were. I did not want to live like that any longer.
So I look at my options when I feel like that. It is so hard, I know. We live a life sorta with a person who is our spouse but isn't. Is very lonely.
Hey woulda been your fortune to end up in a wheel chair with an A taking care of you. OMG. can you imagine????
So whatcha gonna do??? hugs, lotsa hugs??? I know the anniversary thing too. I don't think about it anymore. Means nothing.
Be glad you have kiddos. grabbem up and do something fun. love,debilyn
more (((((hugs))))) for you!!! i just had a similar thought today. i was making a dr's appointment for myslef and she said sept 20th? and i said no, that's my anniversary - but what a lot of thoughts it got going. it woulde be our 20th, i wondered would we still be separated... where would we be... then i just had to let it go and focus on today. one day at a time - i will say a prayer for you tomorrow - one minute at a time if you need to - quest
