The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
It seems like forever since I have posted to this board or for that matter getting to a meeting. I certainly feel the difference in myself. Between computer problems, kids activities, and life in general, I have found very little time for myself. But I have found that there is hope. After feeling overwhelmed by running with the kids everynight I have gotten a break in the action. Thank god for holiday weekends!!
I am going away this weekend with the 2 youngest kids. Heading for the coast. Weather looks like it will cooperate so I might actually get to enjoy some sun and surf. The down time is going to be just what I need to reconnect with myself. I have packed my journal, literature, and some fun activities to do with the kids. And I always take my HP with me. So Im all set.
This period has been just what I needed to remind me of the need to take time for myself. I need to take care of all parts of me. Physical, emotional, & spiritual. If I fail to take care of any of those parts then I am no good to myself or others. I easily become overwhelmed with every day activities and slip into old behavior patterns. So tonight I start with taking care of me. Putting it out there that I have been missing out on things that I need in my life, getting away, and just putting the focus on me.
Have a great holiday weekend all - and remember that taking care of ourselves is the cornerstone of our recovery.
Karen
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Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care. Love you all!
Karen
I love long weekends simply because that is often when I have found the opportunity to sit down, relax, read and contemplate....and come away having made real progress in my recovery. This weekend should be a good one - after nearly 4 years in Alanon, I just this week got myself a sponsor. I'm finally ready to start doing my recovery work with another human being. I'm excited, but still nervous. - Lisa