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hi all, question wrt detachment. i used to react when my a drank, lied, did drugs... lately i have been kind and understanding it is a disease. and it is certainly better for me. i say things like, i am sorry you are having such a hard time... the question is - i wonder if i am being more of an enabler... i am not covering up for him nor solving his problems, but by being sympathetic am i making it easier for him to give in to it? please let me know what you think - thanks - quest