The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
As we know the 8th tradition focuses on keeping alanon non-professional, keeping a spiritual focus, and keeping the program available to others.
However the writer also speaks about that the love shared between members cannot be bought, it's not a gift, nor a commodity. We give it away freely with no expectation of compensation. We are richly rewarded by then receiving even more love and recovery than we give away.
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If I was really hard-pressed to tell someone what alanon does for me, I think the above passage expresses it well. I don't go to a meeting or MIP hoping I'm going to "get something." But I always feel better and/or inspired after the exchange of communicating with others who understand my situation, and I understand their's. And over time, I can see how far I've come in healing and being better able to cope with life. And I imagine with continued participation, I can continue to grow and become a better person. At times I feel a little sad that I didn't get involved years ago, but I also feel, better late than never. :)
Good Morning Lyne. Thank you for your service and share. I look forward to attending meetings because I always find relief and learn new ways of creating joy as I grow and change. I no longer feel hopeless and helpless. I still have a lot to learn (and re-learn) . Thank you for adding to my spiritual growth.
Thanks you both.
I think my favourite part of that tradition is the non-professional part. (And of course keeping it open to everyone, or else I wouldn't be here!) Knowing I'm not going to be hit with a big list of shoulds and musts; instead, al-anon mostly reminds me to quiet my mind and listen for my own HP's voice. I love that; it's what keeps me coming back. To me, all of the tips and tricks and slogans and steps lead me back to that wonderful place of listening instead of over-thinking.
