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Ive only called a few times. We usually talk (and have coffee) for an hour before our weekly f2f meeting. She was stressing yesterday that yes its good to read/journal but its important to reach out and make those phonecalls. Ive only called her a few times in the past month or so.
How about you? how often do you call? do you usually have something life threatening occuring to make you pickup that phone? (Im usually on the internet if/when Im home so its hard to get through. I have given ppl my work phone as Im the only one who goes into that answering machine).
HI Barbara , you call her as often as u need to to stay on track. Any one who sponsors , especially a newcommer knows the turmoil your experienceing as she has been there herself. We know that it is going to involve time when we take on a sponcee. So if u need help call.
If your concerned ask her how late u can call her in the evning etc and does she mind if u call often ? She will let you know what is acceptable to her. Louise