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Post Info TOPIC: What me worry?


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What me worry?


Dear Roomies,


Know what a passport in Germany means?  They carry identity cards here--so since USA has no identity cards (well driver's license and credit cards serve same purpose there, but not here,i suppose).  We have to use passport which has our permit to stay in Germany stamped in it.  (Foreigners are required to carry "identity" with them  at all times. ) You can't even ride a bus without identity.  Needless to say, suspicious foreigners are stopped often for control.  Well, the only  catch is that our passports have to be renewed every 10 years and mine is due in June.


They used to do everything  here íssuing the  new passport immediately but now they send in to Washington, leaving a certain time then without a valid passport. They send the new one from the Embassy or Consulate by  registered mail.  Of course, I dreamt up all kinds of fears.


 


A. Worst case scenario # 1


A former student I taught literacy calls me occasionally in thankfulness from Libanon.  In fact, through my work, I have many foreign  contacts.  Maybe I am suspicious character?  Security check ?? 


B.  Worst case scenario #2


I won't be home for registered  mail and German post will send it back and it will become hopelessly lost.


C.  Worst case scenario #3


Photo will be wrong and they refuse production.


etc. etc. up to Z.  I had every nightmare calculated, only guess what


After 5 days I had my new passport.  To make  a long story short, the Marines at Consulate were ever so nice, and Mr. Box, actually a British citizen at the American Consulate, took care of everything even though he was on vacation.  And, Washington works fast so your taxpayer dollars were effective.  Only my photo is still unattractive! lol


Well, none of my fears materialized.  The fear  was just as Alanon says, unrealistic--a lesson I hope I don't forget.


best,toto


 


 


 


 


 


 



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toto12


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Great to hear!  I'll put up my DL photo to your passport anyday, LOL  The government just can't take decent pictures when you are looking.  If they are spying on you, you look so glamerous!


Josey


 



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LOL, Danke toto


Funny example of why not to worry


Tschüß !



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Hi toto,
Loved your post ... nice lesson/ESH re worrying fruitless, ... gotta smile re the photo (my DL photo AND passport photos both stink) and your post was a wonderful reminder of when I was in Germany many moons ago. ....

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