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I just had a major shock to my system tonight. Just needed to write it out, I'm not sure why HP chose this to happen to me or the other person but he/she did. I was on my way to my sis in laws to drop off a chocolate cake. Coming to the turning lane, my light was green. Half way to the light a guy jumps into my lane on his bycycle. I clipped the front tire, which came over my hood landed in back of him, I braked at the same time, but unfortunately my back tire rolled over his foot. My passenger side mirror was bent in because it does this on impact, I couldn't see anything. I got out of the car and for a split second I though, " Oh my God, I've killed someone!" My heart stopped as I ran to the back of the van to see this man laying on the ground, moaning in pain. He said his ankle was broke. I was stunned. Thank goodness traffic was stopped in the other lanes or he would have been hit again. He scooted to the median and tried to take off his sock, when he did he said his ankle popped back into place. He refused to go the hospital because he doesn't have insurance. I just kept thinking if I were going any faster, if he would have come out any further, he would have been dead. HP was on both our sides tonight. Some damage to my van, not sure if its worth making a claim. The guy had nothing and I wasn't going to ask him for anything. He took responsibility for the accident and was sited a ticket too. He won't be able to work for a while, especially if he doesn't go the hospital.
I remained calm, but was real shaken up. Nothing like this has ever happened to me, but I felt really lucky that we were both o.k. I dont even care about the damage on my car. Last year I don't think I would have been able to handle this as well as I am, I have Alanon and my Alanon friends to thank for that. Hopefully a special lesson can be learned instead of a painful one. Just wanted to share, needed to get it out I guess. Thanks guys. Have a good night.
Hugs,
Twinmom~
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"The people who don't mind matter and the people who mind, don't matter". (Dr. Seuss)
Isn't it wonderful that out there in the world there are people willing to take responsibility for their part in any situation?
That must have been scary. You got my heart pumping here and reminded me of an incident when I was 9 mos very pregnant and two cars ahead of me, a motorcyclist hit going very fast.
I ran out of the car, was directing traffic, etc. LOL and the cops were worried about me that I was gonna deliver right then and there. Nope, the boy wasn't ready yet.
Nice to have a place to share Twin and I am glad HP was there for both of you.
Maria123
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If I am not for me, who will be? If I am only for myself, then who am I? If not now, when?
that is awesome that you could both take care of self. insurance or not, i don't know many that would do what he did either. awesome calmness to the both of ya!
How interesting this is. And such an eye-opener. An awsome share.
A few yrs back when me old classic(over30yo) was still goin', I had a simular thing happen. Thank the heavens that the young boy was OK and it was only the bike that suffered. I, myself, have had to rely on this grand mode of traveling, (along with when I use to have busses w/bikeracks available on the front) and what an adventure it was after I stopped the struggle to change. Talk about an adjustment after 35 yrs behind a wheel. Quite a jurne, indeed. And another view of another way of living. I would of never imagined in my wildest dreams I'd ever see, experience, and feel that and a grand tour it is. Of course it has its ups and downs, and pains and gains, and a different group of people to experience along with it. I met many on the sidewalks the last few yrs. I would of never encountered in me old car. Such a gift to meet so many in another lifestyle. Young to way up there, past me anyway.
Glad you are OK............Blessings on the ROAD to recovery ! .......................
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I tell myself when times are rough, "this to shall pass!!!" Ask HP for guidance, if the door is open, and I know how to look, I will become aware! I also visit http://www.inspiringthots.net/ . Blessings , Your sister in Recovery