The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I understand there are some underlying issues going on. As usual I am not with the majority.
I do not mind being in the unpopular vote. To be honest, it is my nature to be. I am not perfect, but someone else was, a very unpopular person, and he was nailed to a stake and died.
To be in the minority of people who are caring, loving and forgiving, not critical or judgemental is my goal.
I would rather help someone over and over until they felt better, than to throw them away, or make them so hurt they go away.
Awww, Debilyn, as always, you are my mentor. I don't know the situation, as I don't go to chat, but who could ever wish for a better friend than you !!?? BTW, have you started that book yet? I can't wait to read it, you are a breath of fresh air in this room! Love Ya! TLC
im with you on that one debilyn your right, if someone needs help and they ask you for help just cuz they don't take your advice doesn't mean you should stop helping them..
we can't walk in their shoes so we don't really know the right way to help them. But often just being there and being a friend is the best way to help anyone...
