I want to let everyone to know who read & commented on my last post, My bonus mom is no longer living. My biological mom is still alive. I am not sure if you all knew what I meant. It is just that I wanted to honor my step-mom. I guess it doesn't really matter who she was, I love her. Right now I am actually conflicted about my mom. She is still in assisted living. She is still demanding for me to do something for her that is really not entirely up to me. I am the only child up here close to where she is. I have already done more for her than she realizes. I am not going to do anything for her that I can't do. The same thing goes on like a broken record. I had to hang up on her because she was trying to control what she thinks is best for her. Anyhow, it involves money & why her money is being take care of by the conservators. She thinks they are stealing her money. She is not living in the reality of it all. I am upset & haven't returned any of her recent calls. I am done until I can handle the situation. I may be a long time. One day at a time.