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Ok all the replys to my too soon post are great but what I failed to mention was that he is not living at home right now and I nkow he wants to and I want him to but what do I do.
Take your time, think about some possible boundaries if he does come back home and if you think you can stick by the boundaries you set. Big decisions should not be made quickly. Alanon suggests six months of program before you make big decisions. We are here no matter when or what you decide.
Keep coming back, and will keep giving our ESH (experience, strength and hope).
Josey
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Julianne - It's best to move on. You cannot look back in anger in life. It's too short
The only person who knows when the time is right for him to come home is you. Both AA and Alanon make suggestions, but you have to decide what is right for you.
You didn't say if you had talked about it with him.
Maybe the two of you can sit down adn decide what makes you both comfortable, set some healthy boundaries and make a plan.
