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JulieLynn


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Well I made it through my 2nd anniversary without my AH.  I kept myself as busy as I could so that I was not dwelling on the date or the fact that my husband and I are seperated.  I, of course, did not hear from him.  I would be lying if I said that I didn't think of him a couple of times but my thoughts were not continuously on him.  I am really trying to work the program.  I pray that with my HP's help that I will be able to continue on this path of progress.


Thanks everyone.


Julie



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jrtjosey


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Hang in there.  You made it through the day, you will make it through many more.


Josey



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Julianne - It's best to move on. You cannot look back in anger in life. It's too short
twinmom2


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Good for you Julie Lynn Keep it up!!


Hugs,


Twinmom~


 



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debilyn


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Good for you to keep going on your path.


I do know,however, how very  painful it is. I feel such empathy for you. It hurts to lose the dream doesn't it?


Well it is 7 years. I don't even think of it anymore. So far passed it now. getting so far past everything.


I see you are really getting the program skills to work. There are so many miracles in your future.


love,debilyn



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doxie


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Good for you Julie,


Stay strong, take it one day at a time.


Doxie



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Becky1


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((((julie))))) This Al-anon thingy really does work, doesn't it, when  we work it????


Seriously, I know how painful it is, but with the help of HP and this program, we have better knowledge and can live better lives, one day at a time.  Thank God that's all we have to do, is one at a time. 


Love in Recovery,


Becky1


 



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Way to go JulieLynn!


 


Keep up the good work one day at a time!


 


Julia



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nmike


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JulieLynn,


I went through my 32nd anniversary at Christmas with my heart in my throat. Even though we spent Christmas with our children and went out to dinner it was difficult because we are separated. I just told myself that this is just one anniversary that isn't going to be special and that I can do something different this year. I did finally give back the anniversary gift from my mother. I told her the truth which is that my husband doesn't want to be married anymore.  I called friends and tried to get to f2f meetings and come here to MIP. This too shall pass.


I keep working my program with Alanon and hope to see a change in me. Stay in contact with us.


In support,


Nancy



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(((JulieLynn)) Your a wonderful kind and loving person.   Keep looking uP! Keep Letting Go and Letting God/HP..   Take care of You. Progress not Projection. (((BigHuG)))



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