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Post Info TOPIC: Husband sent me an email that has me worried


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Husband sent me an email that has me worried


Husband sent me a goodbye letter say he wants to end it all tonight. I call 911. The cops show up and he made contact with one cop. The cop talk with him inside the house and verified that he was alive amd drunk. The cop steps outside and then He wont open the door so they won't break it down. They advised me to leave amd stay somewhere else for the night. I followed their advise. I'm sick with worry.

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((Ann)) Prayers on the way. I am so very sorry that the police did not do more.

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Betty

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I'm sorry. Praying for peace and a positive outcome for you and your husband.

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I too am sending positive thoughts your way....Prayers as well!

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Prayers for you and your AH.

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Thanks everyone for the thoughts and prayers. AH is safe for now. He asked why I called the cops and I told him because you sent me that email. He said he loves himself too much to do it.

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This is part and parcel of the disease we live with.  I can visualize what you and he and the police went thru as the disease was doing its insane behavior.  Prayers for you and He also....((((hugs)))) cry



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Thanks for the follow up Ann - super glad that he's OK and hope you are too!

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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging.  Pause before assuming.  Pause before accusing.  Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret.  ~~~~  Lori Deschene

 

 



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Big hugs,

Glad you are both ok. Prayers to you both.

Hugs S :)

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Glad that you are both OK Thanks for the follow up

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