He came home from work today and told me that we needed to talk.  He informed me that he sold the cb radio and tv/dvd player (the third one) and bought coke today.  He relapsed in a big way.  By the time he told me he had already secured a bed for tomorrow night at a detox and then a rehab center after for thirty days.  He quit his job today, because it is too easy for him to use when isolated in the truck for a day or two at a time.  He also realized he can't work a recovery program when he's only able to get to one meeting a week on saturday.  I was upset he sold the stuff I had just bought him a little over a month ago.  Actually that's the third tv in four months.  Then I realized it was useless to be upset because I expected it to happen.  I was not upset with him for using, just upset period.  He asked me what to do now and I simply told him that it's not my problem.  He is a grown man and needs to make his own decisions and live with the outcome.  I did tell him that whatever he does has to be done because he wants to do it and not because he's afraid I will leave.  Right now he is feeling shaky and coming down, but went to an NA meeting.  I will keep praying.