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Post Info TOPIC: A Friend / A Sponsor


~*Service Worker*~

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A Friend / A Sponsor


(A)ccepts you as you are - s/he should because s/he is probably there, or has been there


(B)elieves in "you" - and know the Promises are true.


(C)alls you just to say "Hi" - "Have you read the Big Book today?"


(D)oesnt give up on you - s/he gets you back on the 12 steps


(E)nvisions the whole of you - even the unfinished parts, and knows there are many.


(F)orgives your mistakes - if s/he has made the same ones - and s/he has.


(G)ives unconditionally - even if it seems like "Tough Love"


(H)elps you - see yourself


(I)nvites you over - or to a meeting


(J)ust "to be" with you - to be a friend


(K)eeps you close at heart - but not too close as to run your life


(L)oves you for who you are - hope so, they are the same


(M)akes a difference in your life - you can see your mistakes more clearly through them


(N)ever judges--"Lest they be judged"


(O)ffers support - helps you today


(P)icks you up - for a meeting


(Q)uiets your fears - by listening and support


(R)aises your spirits - especially your awareness of the inner SPIRIT of your HP


(S)ays nice things about you - even if it is hard to, and it may be hard to at times


(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it - even if you dont always like it


(U)nderstands you - only because s/he has been there, too!


(V)alues you - because you are important to their own (recovery)


(W)alks beside you - in good times and bad


(X)-plains things you dont understand- and thats a lot!


(Y)ells when you wont listen - the cotton in your ears is hard to get through


(Z)aps you back to reality - when you are getting too "airy fairy" with your spirituality


 



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Ria


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Thank you. I'm hoping to find another sponsor soon as my last one left the fellowship. I will be truly blessed if they are all that you A-Z suggests. With love

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