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I'm so fed up don't no where to begin . I got back with my ex husband he seamed different I could tell he was working his steps he was going to meetings the house was at pease then he lost his job and things went down hill we were evicted from his appartment our house is in forcloser .time he wake up in the morning he be gone all day and again everything was a secret he never told me where he was at and he was not looking for work either. I finally found work and we lived off of my pay checks while he waited for someone to come knocking to offer him something . Worst case senerial happen we had to move out of our state to North Carolina so now we have a new appartment thanks to his mother helping us out . Just need to get him out of my head and focus on me I can't live with his drinking again his attitude he violent rude wants no reponsibily want to be on his own never meet such a selfish man ever . Please help me try to keep him away from me I need alanon bad
Wb wisdom. Sorry to hear about the pain you're feeling. Might be time to find some new Alanon meetings where you're living now and continue to get support of program people. Keep safe and keep coming back. (((hugs))) TT
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Surround yourself with people and elements that support your destiny, not just your history.
Welcome back Wisdom.....so sorry to hear of the situations you are in. I agree with Tiredtonite - embrace the program which will help you with your goal - getting the focus on you and getting him out of your head.
There is an online meeting here in about 25 minutes - better an online meeting than no meeting.
You aren't alone - keep coming back and focus on one day at a time, one moment at a time.
(((Hugs)))
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Practice the PAUSE...Pause before judging. Pause before assuming. Pause before accusing. Pause whenever you are about to react harshly and you will avoid doing and saying things you will later regret. ~~~~ Lori Deschene
Hello Wisdom Alanon tools of living one day at a time, trusting HP focused on yourself and attending a few meetings a week should help you to stay centered..
Positive thoughts on he way.
