The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
"Life isn't fair...get used to it." This is a saying that I tell myself quite often when I'm feeling down about things and find myself thinking, "Why do bad things seem to happen to me?" I guess there's no rhyme or reason to life. Bad things happen to good people all the time. Accepting that we don't always have control over things is something that we have to learn to do, especially when it comes to coping with our A's.
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Just concentrating on getting through one day at a time.
My belief is that bad things happen so we can learn from them. If we don't, they just keep reoccurring until we have learned the lesson put before us. Sometimes we are a part of another's learning experience and it's not about us at all.
That's my .02 cents :)
Christy
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If we think that miracles are normal, we will expect them. And expecting a miracle is the surest way to get one.
