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robinfl


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AH lets me know he is in the mood and tomorrow we should "you know". I say tonight is better because I can only stand it when I have wine, he says OK, and  I prepare by having a glass of wine. An hour later he comes into my room and my dog jumped on the bed (I can't control the dog, guess, I didn't tell her to get on the bed). He went baserk saying "Oh my God, I don't want dog hair on me". At first I tried to get her off the bed then I looked at him and realized --I had an out and said, "OK. FINE." He left,


WHAT AN A_____!!!!

 


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If I needed wine to have an intimate relationship wiht my spouse, I would be concerned as well.

A 4th through 9th Step on this issue should help you resolve this.

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I agree with Betty. I am more concerned about your saying you "need" wine than the A's issues.

Since 8 dogs sleep with me I guess I have no "chance" of well getting any...sigh, well that and I have no one in my life...I mean husband.

But I do have my warm hairy 8 dogs! lol

 



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Debilyn wrote:

 

Since 8 dogs sleep with me I guess I have no "chance" of well getting any...sigh, well that and I have no one in my life...I mean husband.

But I do have my warm hairy 8 dogs! lol

 

 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.........yea, 8 dogs would be a discouraging situation for any human male having the hots..........

My two pit bulls sleep on their towel, next to my bed.......cat gets the foot of the bed adn sometimes shares my pillow with me.....so yea.........geeez Deb, I cracked up when I read this, TOO FUNNY biggrinbiggrinbiggrinbiggrinbiggrinbiggrinbiggrinbiggrinbiggrinbiggrin



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hotrod wrote:

If I needed wine to have an intimate relationship wiht my spouse, I would be concerned as well.

A 4th through 9th Step on this issue should help you resolve this.

 I agree...with the jokes aside, that is really sad and rings a familiar bell.....when i was married to abuser AH#1, i had to have a "sippy" of wine to stand being around him...AH#2 was sweet...but i still had to cut him loose b/c i simply did not want to see him die.....AH#1 was a different story.....I was outta there with no money in my pocked, i bartered for a small flat, i found a way out........I just couldn't stand being with him another moment.......



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