I stayed home from work today. My body is tired and needs sleep. On Monday, I phoned the police. My ex-A must be testing my boundaries and decided he could drop off some stuff at my house. A present for his son that he had the day before at his visit and did not give him. I kind of knew by his inflated ego response at the exchange that something was coming. The police came (very nice officer) and instructed me on my next steps. I really want to tell all of you but am very wary about posting on the Internet !!! Anyway my point is I going forward, didn't freeze, made the call, and took a break today to get my mind and body working again !!!