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OK. I ended up having to engage a lawyer as I drew a dead end everywhere else. I randimly selected one and it was through a call center. I got a call back from a man, explained the situation. He calls me back in an hour the situation is resolved. Without leaving the house. I'm taking this as a very serious explanation from my HP. I'm helping you, I hear your frustration but you MUST get on with your plan. And I will.
I am very grateful. I have to meet my hp halfway however. Over the last two days , I've been reminded of how blessed I am. I am intelligent, well presented and determined. These gifts are not to be dismissed and ignored or held hostage to fear , procrastination, and perfectionism. As Paula said elsewhere its the time to be calculating and careful and to have a plan. Pepper sprays illegal here grateful. But I do have a dv shelter number etched into my brain and a spare phone hidden outside and will pack a go to bag just in case. I wonder if anyone around here in my neighbourhood needs writing services on a contract basis.....there has to be something I can do to earn money.
I am very grateful. I have to meet my hp halfway however. Over the last two days , I've been reminded of how blessed I am. I am intelligent, well presented and determined. These gifts are not to be dismissed and ignored or held hostage to fear , procrastination, and perfectionism. As Paula said elsewhere its the time to be calculating and careful and to have a plan. Pepper sprays illegal here grateful. But I do have a dv shelter number etched into my brain and a spare phone hidden outside and will pack a go to bag just in case. I wonder if anyone around here in my neighbourhood needs writing services on a contract basis.....there has to be something I can do to earn money.
Yay, I'm so glad it's not as bad as you feared. Now, there's an idea. Move down here and share a house with me and we can start our own greeting card company Humorous gallows humor e-cards? lol I think between us we'd be good at those. I'll even be brave and drive up to your town and pick you up
lol, it's a nice idea to ponder anyway even if completely impractical.
Hugs to you.
-- Edited by missmeliss on Monday 15th of December 2014 11:07:11 PM
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I'm not sure why you shared anything with me about the pepper spray, aquamom, and since you have - what about wasp spray? Is that banned? It can shoot 20 feet and is an effective deterrent if you need it.
Well, well, I hit reply and then I see that there is networking going on and greeting card plan unfolding I know something about greeting cards I am too lazy to find the emoticon for hands clapping, so visualize hands clapping.
I kept a can of it in my office to protect myself if necessary from some of the sick and dangerous people who came to us for help. Fortunately, I never had to use it but it would have been much more helpful than that teeny stream of pepper spray in my case. Just can't carry a big can of that in my purse. Too heavy.
Its the visual image that popped into my head. Like a type of super hero armed with bug repellent. I think I need to get myself some counselling. Not over the bug spray image, hehehe, but for all the toxicity of disappointment that keeps jumping out. In truth infidelity cuts the heart. How ridiculous that I should think of that when I've got a million things to take care of. I'm going to make an appointment right now because this hurt needs an outlet and not in time that could be better spent.
Cheap method of self defense and you don't have to be up in their face to spray it.
The infidelity is connected to why you have all these things to do, so it makes perfect sense to me why you're thinking about it right now. Well, the infidelity and the abuse.