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mjferg


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I took a big risk when I decided to end my relationship with my A,I wasn't ready financially but I believed if I had stayed it wouldn't matter anyway,I would be in such bad shape emotionally I don't know if I could have endured much longer.My son  came over the other day and offered help with my  Christmas,we spent the day together shopping and eating out,it was wonderful.God makes a way when we can't,I believe.



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We can curse the darkness or seek the light.  Sounds like you decided to seek the light?



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God does find a way when we surrender and listen.  Step 11 works well for me.



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mjferg


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That is a wonderful way to look at it,I used to think I would die without him,now I believe the opposite is true,at least it was killing my spirit.



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I've put myself and others in my HP's place, too. Amazing what happens when we let go of what we think we need and receive something better, isn't it?

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It is amazing,I have so many dreams and I am starting to realize I am a truly capable woman who can achieve things on my own.



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I can't believe the things I put up with,He was a powerful man and he towered over me like a big tree,he used to get so angry with me when he yelled food would fly out of his mouth and his face would be all twisted in a rage.



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And today - because you chose to leave that drama - you live in peace.

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Mary, I am happy for you. Keep coming back You are a powerful, wise,kind intellligent woman. You will succeed.

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I am so happy for you. Sometimes we just need to be still and listen to what our HP is telling us.

I'm wishing you the merriest Christmas ever!!

 



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It took a long time to 'adjust" but my life is so amazingly wonderful now and I look back and realize that all the grief I went though taught me how to live better. I am so happy and I value myself and my life without the A so very much! I'm happy for you and hope that you will look back and be happy, peaceful and love yourself first!



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