The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
In dealing w/ others I believe that communication is of utmost importance. Now that my mom is coming back close to here, I am feeling much better because the communication lines are getting better. Not that before she got sick, it wasn't OK. But now I have the opportunity to get current w/ her, I can see how things can improve even better. I have a chance while she is still here, to see her & spend quality time w/ her like never before. This Thanksgiving I am inviting her to dinner. I haven't spent the holiday w/ her for quite a few years by my choice. It didn't always go well. Anyhow, that prompted her to spend time down w/ my extended family.
So, today I feel well now that I have talked to my mom. There is some peace in my life.
I agree communication is key and I really have a hard time with confrontation sometimes, but I have learned to say what I mean, mean what I say without saying it mean. I have learned to be a more direct person without being rude. I still let things go too long sometimes before I say what needs to be said, but progress not perfection for me. Sending you love and support on your journey!
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Sending you love and support on your journey always! BreakingFree
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" Pain is inevitable, suffering is optional."
"Serenity is when your body and mind are in the same place."
If I may ask, what type of communications are you referring to. I am having a lot of issues with my own Mom and trying to figure out the right way to communicate my feelings towards her. Any pointers?
