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Debilyn


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I appreciate those who helped me thru this dilemma.

It came down too I am way too stressed from the tenants. I have done all I can do. It may be they have to leave. Then my renting my pasture is not settled. And now my 4 H people cannot find calfs to raise yet. so she may not rent.

I talked to my son who  told me to trust my instincts that there will always be cows that need help. Not to worry.

Gotta get myself well. I was shown yet again my constitution is not normal. My mother told me I musta been born on the wrong planet. The pain of the world makes me sick.

Well right now, just found out a friend of 14 years has died.  please hp hang onto me tight. hugs all



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Luiza


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(((hugs))) Debilyn, HP is holding you and he will show you what to do.

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I am sorry for the loss of your friend Debilyn....



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Sorry for your loss and anguish Deb! Sending you lots of prayers, love and support!

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Sorry about your friend debilyn, take care of yourself.x

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Prayers Deb. Some years are oh so difficult. One moment at a time, trusting HP helped me each time.

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Debilyn wrote:

 

I talked to my son who  told me to trust my instincts that there will always be cows that need help. Not to worry.

Gotta get myself well. I was shown yet again my constitution is not normal. My mother told me I musta been born on the wrong planet. The pain of the world makes me sick.

Well right now, just found out a friend of 14 years has died.  please hp hang onto me tight. hugs all

 (((((((((((((((((((D))))))))))))))))) I agree with son.....trust your instincts as I will be trusting me in mine in the days coming ......hes right...there will always be cows that need help......I am sending you BIG HEALING HUGS for your constitution.....and omg...."The pain of the wrold makes me sick"  I am a sensitive soul like you....I hide behind my anger and my short temper, but really I am a sensitive soul who deplores/loathes suffering of any kind.....but unlike you, i became an agnostic b/c of it....too much pain....on me...on the creatures and other children "broke" something in me, but I still want to be a vessel of love and peace.......i soooo relate to your post.....and i am sooo sorry your friend passed.....your just a bundle of love and goodness.......i wish i could come to your house and help you..........sending you love and support hugs



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I love you on this planet. Another prayer your way comes Debilyn.

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Debilyn, I'm praying for you. I was thinking about valleys and mountain tops and this is the conclusion I have drawn>>Sometimes we need to feel and struggle in the valleys so that we are able to appreciate the mountain tops. I'm praying HP will guide you through the valley and lead you to your mountain top.

((Debilyn))



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Cathyinaz


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When things just don't go right I find myself stressed to the point of getting ill. I have to slow down. I have to take it one day at a time and not let ALL my worries take over my life. I have to remember to just take on one task, complete it and not worry about the rest until that time comes to fix it.

This week is one of those stress weeks. To many problems and not enough mind set to let it go until it gets better. Monday was the worse. Tuesday I was able to complete and fix a worry and I felt better. Today I took care of a problem and I'm feeling even better. Now just two more days to take on one more worry and if I get through it I can feel I have helped myself live on life's terms without getting sick or depressed.

This will pass...it always does...HP will bring you to a conclusion that you can live with.

((( hugs ))))




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I'm sorry, sometimes it just keeps coming eh.
If I was not so very far away I'd bring you some of the soup I just made, cauliflower and fennel, I can't get enough of it at the moment. Fennel's good for bad digestion, horrid by itself but nice in soup with cauliflower and a fair bit of pepper.
Thinking of you anyway.
(((Deb)))


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I'm sorry ((((debilyn)))) that so much is unsettled right now. I'm sorry also that on top of all that you got sad news about your friend. Maybe hp is doing for you what you might not do for yourself. When hp throws roadblocks in my path, it's usually for my best interest.  Keep taking care of YOU and get yourself feeling well. The future will unfold as hp means it to. luv ya lots! T



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Luiza wrote:

(((hugs))) Debilyn, HP is holding you and he will show you what to do.

 Luiza, you and your daughter as so cute!!



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