LOL .. this feels like dejuv at this point .. did I not say this before?  Can't post to much right now just want to say we will have a court date on Wednesday and I WILL be divorced unless of course there is an act of God at which point I give up .. I will just stay married and leave everything as is .. lol.  I'm so done.  Soooo .. God of my understanding, please do not quit your day job and take up comedy .. you aren't that funny .. ok .. you are months later, .. however there are comedic pauses and then there are comedic pauses .. you take to long with the pause thing!!  Laughing months later is great .. however I've had my fill of waiting for the punch line, all the while my life is the punch line. 

I've gotten good news and we will be proceeding on that news .. there will be lingering issues.  I just have a feeling last Saturday was a come to Jesus discussion with his atty.  His atty is very, very done and he was handed his butt on a silver platter and it was explained to him no way in hell was he coming into court stating he had NO job.  Fix it and you will fix it now.  I haven't heard a word from him nor have I communicated .. it is unfortunately best this way. 

My atty and I spoke about the kids because she mentioned that he said he hadn't seen the kids for a while and all of a sudden he is accepting that it's up to the children regarding him.  The kids have set boundaries he chooses not to abide by.  I pointed out to her in 9 months he has physically not telephoned his children at all.  Oh he will text 2x a month maybe .. as far as physically calling them?  I can't remember the last time he actually spoke to them via the phone.  That is not his thing.  Now he will call his girlfriend while he has them for visitation to get ideas about what to do .. he will not call his kids when he's not with them.  He's not contesting the parenting agreement and even if he did at this point .. he doesn't want to do the work it would take to repair the relationships.  So I believe he went in on Saturday just like a peacock .. explaining very rationally that I was violating the parenting agreement and that he had no job and his atty said WTH is wrong with you!?  You have got to STOP.  I'm sure he went over the parenting agreement with STBAX and all of a sudden there was a light bulb moment of going to court, having all of this come out and how badly he was going to look in the long run.  He is terrified of what other people think of him .. I mean he's constantly rewriting history. 

Thank you Jesus .. this is almost over .. I'm thrilled and have been dancing in the hallways waiting for my door to open and it looks like a door the size of a skyscraper is going to fly open!! 5 more days and this is almost over .. not fully .. you never know.   

S :)