The material presented
here is not Al-Anon Conference Approved Literature. It is a method
to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
I haven't been to a meeting since Febuary 2014 lots has happen and the two people that have tried to talk with me from my home group I really don't want to talk to. I can say this I'm not sure if I will go to meetings again. I became frustrated with the meetings that are around. I do go to an open AA speakers meeting on Saturday nights but that's it. Just wanted to put my thoughts out there.
Kathie If you are finding support from the open AA meetings please continue to attend. It has always been suggested that we try 6 different alanon meetings before deciding if alanon is for us. The main reason for that is that each meeting is different, even as they each support the alanon prinicples and carry alanon CA Literature.
If you do not feel safe with the alanon members who have reached out to you,then you simply may not be ready for that connection .
Be gentle with yourself and do what you feel you are able. Keep coming back the program works when we work it.