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Bf way to get his foot in the door ,I've only got a jacket and statue that's. to worth much and he has no place to put them its hot outside he don't need his coat,he left a huge box of winter clothes that he didn't even mention.its his way if he can just get here to my house and it be ok with me then he figures he can move back in.he sounded sick on the ph. No stable place to stay all his things in his caNt take care of him even though I do love this man ugh,I can't go through it again .im concerned about him.but it will only get worse if I let him back in here.he has no mins on his cell.ph ,his mistress won't even help him out .evidently.or he wouldn't be in this perdicament .she has money I don't.
Nothing changes if nothing changes. I love that. If you keep on with this pattern or cycle then its like pressing repeat. It goes on and on then one day you wake up and youve played the same boring game for half your life. Well thats what happened to me. Im 43 and I changed me and in turn my whole life changed, its like night and day the life I have now to the life I had then. So the choice is yours, are you still playing that same old game or not? thats basicallythe question he is asking you, when is it time to decide for you?
Recognition, acceptance is they key. You know what you should do & not do. Stick to your boundaries. Each time you make a good decision for you, you will get stronger. Take is slow and easy. Blocking him from calling might be the next right thing to do so you don't even need to say, "no". But remember, NO is a complete sentnece. :)
