The material presented
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to exchange
information, ideas, feelings, problems and solutions on a personal
level.
It has been a long while since I have posted here. I hope you are well and working your own recoveries.
There are big changes underway on my end. My AH, who spent a year working out of state, returned home for good in early July, and has been working locally. His drinking and behavior is spiraling, and it is time for me to leave, for my own sake, for the sakes of my daughters, and for the sake of my son. There is nothing even remotely healthy about the situation at this point, and it is now a matter of securing a vehicle for me, and a place for the kids and I to live. Once we are out and safe, I will file divorce papers.