14 Days and counting .. - Al-Anon Family Group

SerenityRUS · ~*Service Worker*~

14 Days and counting ..

hotrod · ~*Service Worker*~

Serenity I had a friend that this exact incident happened to. After a call to the lien company it turned out that the loan had been paid off but the loan company neglected to notify the Lien company. It was resolved easily by faxing the receipt of the full payment
Rest, sleep Let go and Let God . I will light a candle for a positive outcome

Jill · ~*Service Worker*~

Serenity I had my ex husband's name on the title of a house I was selling five years after the divorce. i jumped to your conclusion. It turned out a paper had to be filed in another county. I flipped out for no reason. Had I begun by checking the obvious and simple, I would have figured it out. Good luck - 2 weeks will be over so soon. Eyes on the prize!

SerenityRUS · ~*Service Worker*~

LOL .. if I was freaking out I would have already accused him and been texting him all night .. Betty I'm pretty sure you are right .. I just think OMGOSH .. at what point will this nightmare end. I don't have a copy of the receipt I don't think .. if I do it's buried and this will be a nightmare walking to say the least. It is what it is and hopefully it's a very simple thing to resolve which means just going to the place we took the loan out at and getting the paid in full and then taking it to the DMV .. it will be that easy I hope.

Thanks for the support .. it's going to be a LONG two weeks in terms of please just let this resolve quickly and quietly.

Word on the street is .. if he doesn't sign the agreement his atty is going to withdraw on the spot .. soooo this means he would have no atty and I found out that would be VERY bad .. ugh. I don't have to worry about that tonight and I'm grateful for that fact .. whew!!!

Hugs S :)

pinkchip · ~*Service Worker*~

14 days for you til divorce and 18 days til I get married and we are both stoked about it lol. Ironic.

hotrod · ~*Service Worker*~

Prayers for both of you

SerenityRUS · ~*Service Worker*~

OMGOSH .. Pink .. how WONDERFUL!! I'm sooo happy for you and I know already that you have a better chance than I ever did of finding that happy beginning!! Much love to you my friend .. big big hugs!!

There is a small part of me that is scared of many things .. worrying about it won't change it .. I keep reminding myself .. God already knows the outcome and no matter what I do .. unless I practice some funky my will stuff it's not going to change the outcome. It's why it's SOO much better for me if I stay out of everything and just allow the cards to unfold.

You realize those Ace's in my pocket .. well .. NOW is the time I will be playing them and I picked up an extra one just for good measure .. that was a God thing sooo .. I will just sit and wait. You know my STBAX would be soooo much better off if I was freaking out right now because I would be showing my hand .. however .. I just choose to wait and bide my time .. that's actually where he should be worried .. that means I'm in my head and thinking vs reacting to all of what is going on.

I meet with my atty next Tuesday and then the Tuesday after that is the court date. I hurry up and wait .. don't just do something .. sit there and that is ok. I will have ALL of my documentation for my purposes so while in court if I need something I can present it.

Other than that .. it's just going to be what it's going to be and he's done put himself in such a position .. he's seriously just screwed one way to another.

Hugs S :)

PP · ~*Service Worker*~

Prayers, Serenity and Serenity.

Debilyn · ~*Service Worker*~

yes dear I so get you. I know that feeling of oh my gosh he sold my pressure washer! Was my Mothers. Or where did my bolt cutter go?

I had been gathering tools before he was around. Saws etc. Now nothing but what he didn't find I have. Need a sawzall! dremel. oh stop it stop it.

Yes it is what it is. And I betcha more will come up. They sadly with their disease are the most crafty, manipulizing humans on the planet. NOthing means more, nothing than getting their fix of whatever drug.

I remember my friend had no food for the kids, yet he went out and bought beer! rrrr

Had to learn to not let it make me bitter, was hard as I worked hard for 18 years to have perfect credit and bought and invested in things that would last a lifetime. Only to end up with my stuff ruined from having toput it in the barn.

Now nothing matters to me but my animals. Things don't matter anymore. long as my bed is so comfy, I have a futon for the dogs, and double recliner and laptop...then the needs. I am ok.

hope you have all you need and lots of your wants. You are in my prayers. Sadly yours will undoubtedly end up in the big house.....

SerenityRUS · ~*Service Worker*~

The car thing is partially taken care of .. why is nothing simple? LOL? At least it is moving forward and it was that the loan place didn't take the lien down thank you God for that favor. So hoping to put the van deal and the divorce to bed very soon.

There is some mild complications that will resolve soon enough ..

I can't think about what he might or might not do at this point .. he's going to do what he's going to do .. if he goes to jail .. leaving the state will be that much easier .. he can't leave the country at this point .. he owes to much back support now.

That actually is in my favor because his dad is in Chile at the moment.

Hugs S :)

grateful2be · ~*Service Worker*~

Well, good, I'm glad it was a simple fix for the car thing. 14 days! Woo hoo!

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