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at least I'm out of it. I was able to find the cat a home with a co worker who lives on a farm. It will probably be hard on her because she will go to an outdoor kitty. It's better than the alternative which is a kill shelter. I'm very not happy with the STBAX at this point. He's just being an A .. I realize this however good grief .. he forever thinks I owe it to him to bail him out.
I think what I still struggle with the most is the fact that our conversation last night and he's just such a jerk about things. NOT ONE WORD today about it .. I did get two thank you's which is unusual for him.
Ohhh on a more comical note .. he has seen I viewed him because his profile is no where to be found on the dating site. I'm sure I was matched with him. I fell out laughing over that one. I'm sure he is actually a little afraid based upon what was written on it. It explains a great deal his behavior last night after all HE'S allowed to go out with "hundreds of women" however I'm not allowed to move on in that way .. it completely explains his behavior regarding the whole I'm indifferent comment.
I know my part in the cat situation and I have to remember on a positive note that if he hadn't taken the cats when he did which I GREATLY appreciate .. there is no question with that .. I was able to bring my old lady home with me. I bought some extra time for my younger one. I just didn't appreciate being blindsided by what he already knew going into the situation ... he was going to move.
Anyway, thanks for being here :)
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Faith minus vulnerability and mystery equals extremism. If you've got all the answers, then don't call what you do "faith". - Brene Brown
"Whatever truth you own doesn't own you" - Gary John Bishop
Oh, Serenity. I'm so glad you found a home for your cat. I know that was such a concern for you. You dealt with the situation. You changed what you could. The old lady is home with you in your new home. You continue to move closer to the divorce date and you are cleaning up your side of the street. Such a tribute to you working the program and the changes that can bring about.
