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His money makeing is from illegal means ,my a bf.now how do I relate to him is my ?,without my blowing up at his behavior,he don't sleep or don't hardly sleep, ill,etc.he stays gone a lot...hugs ,looking up and I do think he is on it himself it's crystalmeth or ice is what my a bf finally told me after I stayed on him but now that I know I'm not calling his phone every day 2 x a day now I just don't really care and I am wanting him to go but I don't want no harm to come to him,right now I'm needing him for the next month while I'm on vacation with my daughter my abc I need to babysit my yorky,I just hope I can bite me tongue until then this is a very insane way of liveing life,no life I want for sure or the kind of ppl it draws,I feel like that I'm his only true freind he has that I do know to be true but I need to get on with my life in my church and beleifs and he don't fit in like he is.oh my,I am a bit scared ,I look at him at times with hatred in my heart toward him.gtg loves



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I am sure there is someone else who can watch your dog you can trust. The addict will not care for your dog. they cannot even keep a plant alive. Plus what happens when you are gone and one of his buddies lets your dog out, or gives it drugs???

I would be happy to watch your dog there are many who would.  You can ask on facebook and or craigslist. I know this sounds like advice but a little life is at stake that needs to be protected.

Its hard to have a person we care about who is addited to drugs. I get the only friend thing too. Problem is when we allow them to live with us and use us, we are helping them be able to continue their druggie life to be the best. Plus I am sure you do not want this kind of person around your child!

I also want to share with you, when he gets busted at your home, you will also be arrested, and your child and dog taken away. You could be charged with child endangerment for allowing him to be there!!! He is taking advantage of you dear one.

Please keep coming We do not hear enough from you! love! debilyn 



-- Edited by Debilyn on Monday 26th of May 2014 03:34:19 PM

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Thanx deb,my a bf stays gone most of time in the next town over is where he does his thing but my dog loves him and he loves my dog and he is the only one that my dog will stay with I've had my dog for 9yrs.and I have no little ones my 2 kids are grown and married and live off.so it's just me here and my dog and my a bf,ugh

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oh ok I saw you were going on vacation with your daughter.

I hope your dog is ok. My exAH loved our animals too. I did leave once.
The animals told me in their way they had not been fed. He lied of course.sigh we had an animal sancturary. About every animal you can think of.

its so hard as they can genuinly be nice people addicted to something horrible and be so sick.

I hope you keep moving fw and take care of you. Believe me you deserve better. love! btw I am glad you are going to see daughter!!



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Thanks for sharing lookingup.

Prayers for you , your abf and family

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